Avropa \u0130ttifaq\u0131n\u0131n maliyy\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259yi il\u0259\u00a0 BMT-nin \u018fhali FonduBMT-nin Qad\u0131nlar Agentliyi il\u0259 birg\u0259 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irdiyi \u201cAtalar M\u0259kt\u0259bi \u2013 M\u0259suliyy\u0259tli atal\u0131\u011fa do\u011fru\u201d layih\u0259sinin benefisiar\u0131 R\u0259van C\u0259bray\u0131lov Atal\u0131q diplomunu alsa da, onun fikrinc\u0259, n\u0259 atal\u0131q d\u0259rsl\u0259ri bit\u0259ndir, n\u0259 d\u0259 imtahanlar\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cM\u0259n nec\u0259 atayam?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Leylan\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, onun atas\u0131 d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 atas\u0131d\u0131r. He\u00e7 kim onun kimi yumurta bi\u015fir\u0259 bilmir, he\u00e7 anas\u0131 da. Atas\u0131 onu g\u0259zm\u0259y\u0259 apar\u0131r, al\u0131\u015f-veri\u015f edir. \u00c7arpay\u0131s\u0131 olsa da, Leyla h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 atas\u0131n\u0131n quca\u011f\u0131nda, atas\u0131n\u0131n ona oxudu\u011fu na\u011f\u0131llar al\u0259min\u0259 dalaraq yat\u0131r. Ziyad \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 atas\u0131 ideald\u0131r, o da b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259 atas\u0131 kimi h\u0259rb\u00e7i olmaq ist\u0259yir. Ayt\u0259n d\u0259 R\u0259vandan h\u0259m h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 ata kimi \u00e7ox raz\u0131d\u0131r. R\u0259van\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259lim v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259yi olmasa idi, Sabirabaddan Bak\u0131ya k\u00f6\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llimliyini davam etdirm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 bil\u0259rdi…<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u0259van da yax\u015f\u0131 ata oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fc. Amma g\u00fcnl\u0259rin birind\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259binin elan\u0131na rast g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 indiy\u0259d\u0259k a\u011fl\u0131na g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259n bir sual onu rahat buraxmad\u0131: \u201cG\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, m\u0259n nec\u0259 atayam? Yax\u015f\u0131 ata nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u0259van ad\u0259ti \u00fczr\u0259 Ayt\u0259nl\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259\u015fdi, Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259bin\u0259 yaz\u0131lmaq ist\u0259diyini dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7ox ke\u00e7m\u0259di ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 ged\u0259nl\u0259rin say\u0131 4 oldu. S\u0259h\u0259r d\u0259rs\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259s\u0259n Ayt\u0259nd\u0259n, Leyladan v\u0259 Ziyaddan f\u0259rqli olaraq, R\u0259van m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 i\u015fd\u0259n sonra qa\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131. El\u0259 ma\u015f\u0131ndaca \u0259ynini d\u0259yi\u015fir, m\u00fclki geyim geyinirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u0259r sessiyadan g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra is\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259ndikl\u0259rini Ayt\u0259nl\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fc…<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u018fn b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259rs<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cAtalar M\u0259kt\u0259bin\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 bir sual m\u0259n\u0259 rahatl\u0131q vermirdi. Biz ham\u0131m\u0131z el\u0259 hesab edirik ki, \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 atay\u0131q. H\u0259rd\u0259n biz\u0259 el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n maddi ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259yiriks\u0259, bu, yax\u015f\u0131 ata olma\u011f\u0131n \u0259n \u00f6n\u0259mli g\u00f6st\u0259ricidir. Amma bel\u0259 deyilmi\u015f. Bizim \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131za ver\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yimiz \u0259n qiym\u0259tli h\u0259diyy\u0259 vaxt\u0131m\u0131z, enerjimizdir. M\u0259n h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131ma vaxt ay\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015fam, amma Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259bind\u0259n sonra onlarla daha \u00e7ox zaman ke\u00e7irir, onlara qulluq v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 \u0259n az\u0131 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m q\u0259d\u0259r i\u015ftirak etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ram.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259binin \u0259n maraql\u0131 c\u0259h\u0259ti m\u00fcxt\u0259lif m\u00f6vzularda apar\u0131lan m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259rdir. F\u0259rqli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 qulaq asd\u0131qca anlay\u0131rsan ki, s\u0259nin fikirl\u0259\u015fdikl\u0259rinin ham\u0131s\u0131 do\u011fru olmaya bil\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, m\u0259n Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259bin\u0259 ged\u0259n\u0259 kimi q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259n\u0259t se\u00e7iml\u0259ri bar\u0259d\u0259 stereotip bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259y\u0259 sahib idim. El\u0259 fikirl\u0259\u015firdim ki, m\u0259nim q\u0131z\u0131m ya h\u0259kim, ya m\u00fc\u0259llim olmal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259n\u0259 el\u0259 g\u0259lirdi ki, s\u0259n\u0259t se\u00e7imind\u0259 onu \u00f6z d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fcm kimi istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndirs\u0259m, o daha \u00e7ox xo\u015fb\u0259xt olar. \u0130ndi f\u0259rqli fikird\u0259y\u0259m. Leylan\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259t se\u00e7imin\u0259 mane olmaq ist\u0259mir\u0259m. B\u0259lk\u0259, Leyla m\u0259nim qad\u0131n s\u0259n\u0259ti kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259diyim bir sah\u0259d\u0259 u\u011fur qazana, insanl\u0131q \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox faydal\u0131 bir i\u015f g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259r…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259bind\u0259 \u015fahidi oldu\u011fum bir hadis\u0259 m\u0259ni \u00e7ox sars\u0131td\u0131, h\u0259yata bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdi. Biziml\u0259 birlikd\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 bir ail\u0259 g\u0259lirdi \u2013 ata, ana v\u0259 u\u015faq. Bu ail\u0259nin \u00f6vlad\u0131 a\u011f\u0131r x\u0259st\u0259 idi. Buna baxmayaraq, onlar \u00e7ox xo\u015fb\u0259xt ya\u015fay\u0131r, birlikd\u0259 ke\u00e7irdikl\u0259ri h\u0259r bir an\u0131n qiym\u0259tini d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirir, bir-birl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k ola bilirdil\u0259r. M\u0259n h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 sessiyadan sonra ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 Ayt\u0259nl\u0259 h\u0259min ail\u0259 haqq\u0131nda s\u00f6hb\u0259t edirdim. Biz bir daha anlad\u0131q ki, ail\u0259 bizim \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck s\u0259rv\u0259timizidir, onun qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalma\u011f\u0131, onu qoruma\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131y\u0131q. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcns\u0259 h\u0259r g\u00fcn \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u0259 d\u0259rs bit\u0259r, n\u0259 imtahan, n\u0259 d\u0259 arzular…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u0259n Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259binin, obrazl\u0131 des\u0259m, \u201cdiplomunu\u201d ald\u0131m. Bu diplom yaln\u0131z m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil, Ayt\u0259n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 \u00e7ox qiym\u0259tlidir. Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259bi il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 n\u0259 varsa, ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 Ayt\u0259n g\u00f6z b\u0259b\u0259yi kimi qoruyur \u2013 m\u0259n\u0259 veril\u0259n \u00e7antan\u0131, fincan\u0131, h\u0259tta bizim m\u0259kt\u0259bin sessiya c\u0259dv\u0259lini.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259bini art\u0131q bir d\u0259f\u0259 bitirs\u0259m d\u0259, bu il yenid\u0259n h\u0259min m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 yaz\u0131ld\u0131m. Gizl\u0259tmir\u0259m, buradak\u0131 m\u00fchit, tan\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fum insanlar m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox qiym\u0259tli v\u0259 \u0259zizdir. M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 m\u0259ni narahat ed\u0259n suallara cavab tapa bilir\u0259m. \u00d6yr\u0259ndikl\u0259rimi Ayt\u0259nl\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u0259m…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Biz Ayt\u0259nl\u0259 rayonda b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f\u00fck. Sevib ail\u0259 qurmu\u015fuq. Bak\u0131da ya\u015fasaq da, h\u0259r h\u0259ft\u0259 sonu Sabirabada gedirik. Ayt\u0259nin anas\u0131, bac\u0131lar\u0131 orada ya\u015fay\u0131r. K\u0259ndi ham\u0131m\u0131z sevirik \u2013 u\u015faqlara bal\u0131q tutma\u011f\u0131 burada \u00f6yr\u0259tmi\u015f\u0259m…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Amma fikirl\u0259\u015fir\u0259m ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259rin\u0259 r\u0259\u011fm\u0259n, rayonda da \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmayan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r var. X\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 insanlar ail\u0259-m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri, ev i\u015fl\u0259ri v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa qulluq \u00f6hd\u0259likl\u0259rinin ki\u015fil\u0259r v\u0259 qad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda qeyri-b\u0259rab\u0259r payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 probleml\u0259r ya\u015fay\u0131rlar, \u00e7ox zaman stereotip d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rin \u0259sirin\u0259 \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r. Bu probleml\u0259rinin h\u0259llind\u0259 onlara yard\u0131m\u00e7\u0131 olacaq f\u0259rqli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 t\u0259rzini, m\u00fcnasib\u0259t v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k bir m\u00fchit\u0259 ehtiyaclar\u0131 var. Biz Ayt\u0259nl\u0259 \u00e7ox ist\u0259rdik ki, Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259bi t\u0259kc\u0259 regional m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259rd\u0259 deyil, rayonlarda da f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rsin. El\u0259 Sabirabad\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259. \u00dcmidvaram ki, bir g\u00fcn Sabirabadda da Atalar M\u0259kt\u0259binin a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u015fahidi olaca\u011f\u0131q.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Avropa \u0130ttifaq\u0131n\u0131n maliyy\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259yi il\u0259\u00a0 BMT-nin \u018fhali FonduBMT-nin Qad\u0131nlar Agentliyi il\u0259 birg\u0259 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irdiyi \u201cAtalar M\u0259kt\u0259bi \u2013 M\u0259suliyy\u0259tli atal\u0131\u011fa do\u011fru\u201d layih\u0259sinin benefisiar\u0131 R\u0259van C\u0259bray\u0131lov Atal\u0131q diplomunu alsa da, onun fikrinc\u0259, n\u0259 atal\u0131q d\u0259rsl\u0259ri bit\u0259ndir, n\u0259 d\u0259 imtahanlar\u0131. \u201cM\u0259n nec\u0259 atayam?\u201d Leylan\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, onun atas\u0131 d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 atas\u0131d\u0131r. He\u00e7 kim onun kimi yumurta bi\u015fir\u0259 bilmir, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":63765,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-63767","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n